Thought of the day: Why do men/women continue in relationships that are blah? I don't get it...don't get me wrong, we've all been in relationships that have gone sour at one point or another; but to stay in a relationship where nothing is acknowledged, love is not returned and always a one sided deal....Nah! I'm sorry, that's just not for me!
Women/Men stay in the same relationships they talk so much crap about. What's the point? Is it because you put so much energy in detesting the loser that you might as well love him/her?
Is it a pity kinda love? I hate you so much, I love you......
What happened to good'ol fashion love? That love that is irresistible, the love that makes you turn your girl/guy around in the kitchen while s/he makes dinner and start speaking the language of love.....I'm talking about kissing here! Let's get real here for a minute....... Kissing is passionate...makes you all crazy on the inside. What is a relationship without it? I like the dizzy feeling I get after my husband and I passionately kiss. So I can't imagine a relationship without it.
So here's the thing....you're in a relationship where your feelings are not acknowledged, no love is returned unconditionally and the tables are constantly turned on you.....to top it .... the loser doesn't love you like you should be loved, doesn't shower you with kisses and doesn't even tell you how beautiful/handsome you are.......I'm sorry. Why are you in this?
and......Don't you dare blame yourself! Women/Men fall in love all the time, you can't blame yourself for his/her broken promises. After all, isn't it through promises that love is made? S/he showered you with love in the beginning, showered you with promises for your "future together". Then s/he shoots you down when the future becomes the here and now.
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